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		<title>By: karishma</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-313</link>
		<dc:creator>karishma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Aug 2008 07:03:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hay ISHQ

            me aap se dosti karna chahti hoon  mujhe please jald se
jald jvab do mujhe aap se bohat baten karni h  

                                                          App ki Best Friand

                                                           KARISHMA K.C.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hay ISHQ</p>
<p>            me aap se dosti karna chahti hoon  mujhe please jald se<br />
jald jvab do mujhe aap se bohat baten karni h  </p>
<p>                                                          App ki Best Friand</p>
<p>                                                           KARISHMA K.C.</p>
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		<title>By: alisha</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-182</link>
		<dc:creator>alisha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 May 2008 09:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i have 2 say, dis song rocks, its entrtainin n made me LOL
honest, i personally think ishQ did a wickd job, u da bst bbez!!
i also like dakku daddy, fuckin funi, honest!!!
btw, im a gal, i dn't think ishq was bein disrespectful towards women. its juz entertainin his fanz, which he did wonderz 4 me!!
mwhz xxxxx
                                  xxx 4L15H4 xxx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i have 2 say, dis song rocks, its entrtainin n made me LOL<br />
honest, i personally think ishQ did a wickd job, u da bst bbez!!<br />
i also like dakku daddy, fuckin funi, honest!!!<br />
btw, im a gal, i dn&#8217;t think ishq was bein disrespectful towards women. its juz entertainin his fanz, which he did wonderz 4 me!!<br />
mwhz xxxxx<br />
                                  xxx 4L15H4 xxx</p>
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		<title>By: Common Sense</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-169</link>
		<dc:creator>Common Sense</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 May 2008 16:48:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i think if Bachan can play the role of a man in love with a 19 year old, and Bollywood has been for YEARS making dough on concepts such as prostitution, and love conflicts due to class differences and romanticizes it..ishQ is running with his own concept in his own unique way of these very concepts of unacceptable love..true though isn't it? these are taboos that are being presented to the forefront..why is it acceptable for dancing prostitutes but so much venom towards an employer who disses his maid? Bollywood as an industry prides itself on item girlz dressed like skanks in vids, movies, shows, etc. where it becomes embarrassing to watch almost anything entertainment related as a family. Who's the real culprit? think about it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i think if Bachan can play the role of a man in love with a 19 year old, and Bollywood has been for YEARS making dough on concepts such as prostitution, and love conflicts due to class differences and romanticizes it..ishQ is running with his own concept in his own unique way of these very concepts of unacceptable love..true though isn&#8217;t it? these are taboos that are being presented to the forefront..why is it acceptable for dancing prostitutes but so much venom towards an employer who disses his maid? Bollywood as an industry prides itself on item girlz dressed like skanks in vids, movies, shows, etc. where it becomes embarrassing to watch almost anything entertainment related as a family. Who&#8217;s the real culprit? think about it.</p>
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		<title>By: S studies</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-167</link>
		<dc:creator>S studies</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 17:44:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;A month back a friend drew my attention to a music video by Canadian (of Indian origin) hip-hop artist Ishq Bector (his website here). Titled Aye Hip Hopper. the music video tells the tale of an Indian bai (housemaid) in love with this hip-hop artist. This demure bai dressed in a western maid outfit even falls in love and wants him to return her affections. The hip-hopper, as he is addressed by the bai only offers baksheesh in return for her affections and asks her to fut, fut, fut (a Hindi slang for being dismissive). Apparently the music video has caused some furore amongst middle class Indians who find it offensive and sexist. While not denying those charges, I would like to offer a different reading of this and in the process try to bring in some references on the different modes popular culture imagines maids. For a response to Aye Hip Hopper would be vacuous without references to other forms of popular addresses. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A cursory glance at various representations of the maid shows the different ways we imagine the bai  but the most striking one, which also is the oft-repeated one, is the one of the exploitable. This is a very boring point since there is nothing new about it) but the example points to the way capital can find ways to fetishise ordinary objects around us and circulate them for consumption. In this case, we buy the music and watch the television channels that play the music videos and feature his interviews. The question really is why does it appeal to us? In this case, we have an NRI who is imagining India through the musical practices of hip-hop, which brings with it a certain construction of women in both lyrics as well as music videos  Of course, we have to ask the difficult question. If this is a returning-NRI who claims to be one with the roots of Indian popular culture we could ask what is the extent to which he is gazing at the native culture through a patronising and imerialising white culture? Does this music video eroticise the native woman? &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For example, his own virility is heightened and raised by the virile native girl's desire for him. Step back into the past and you find abundant images of the eroticisation of the native body  In Ishq Becto's video, the bai is given agency and is not an object to be merely looked at. She desires Ishq Bector and is hysterical about the same, though in a more subdued form. On the other hand, she is elevated to a new kind of exploitation by transferring her body into a more desirable and gaze friendly attire. So the ordinary bai, engaged in a class struggle also becomes a sexual commodity. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So, is Ishq Bector the returning imperialising gaze? A different kind of representation of the bai can be found in Indian films. Here we see the female from the gaze of the subject thereby leading to interpellation of our own symbolic relations with the subject (the threatening male) and the object (the threatened female). This construction of the bai is from a sensibility that views women as vulnerable and the male gaze as threatening, here we have crude (but not inauthentic) representations of the male (a villain) whose sexual drives leads him to gaze (illicitly) at the female body. Here the subject (the villain) is able to gaze because the baiis weak and vulnerable and cannot challenge the act. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;In the case of Aye Hip Hopper, it raises a further problematic because it also allows us to imagine the bai outside of the class struggle. Here the female articulates her desire and requests the male subject to return her affections in kind! She asks him to mop the floor of her love house! Of course, such a construction is not without problematic resolutions. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;check out this article with videos at this site:&lt;br /&gt;
http://subalternstudies.com/?p=313&lt;/p&gt;
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A month back a friend drew my attention to a music video by Canadian (of Indian origin) hip-hop artist Ishq Bector (his website here). Titled Aye Hip Hopper. the music video tells the tale of an Indian bai (housemaid) in love with this hip-hop artist. This demure bai dressed in a western maid outfit even falls in love and wants him to return her affections. The hip-hopper, as he is addressed by the bai only offers baksheesh in return for her affections and asks her to fut, fut, fut (a Hindi slang for being dismissive). Apparently the music video has caused some furore amongst middle class Indians who find it offensive and sexist. While not denying those charges, I would like to offer a different reading of this and in the process try to bring in some references on the different modes popular culture imagines maids. For a response to Aye Hip Hopper would be vacuous without references to other forms of popular addresses. </p>
<p>A cursory glance at various representations of the maid shows the different ways we imagine the bai  but the most striking one, which also is the oft-repeated one, is the one of the exploitable. This is a very boring point since there is nothing new about it) but the example points to the way capital can find ways to fetishise ordinary objects around us and circulate them for consumption. In this case, we buy the music and watch the television channels that play the music videos and feature his interviews. The question really is why does it appeal to us? In this case, we have an NRI who is imagining India through the musical practices of hip-hop, which brings with it a certain construction of women in both lyrics as well as music videos  Of course, we have to ask the difficult question. If this is a returning-NRI who claims to be one with the roots of Indian popular culture we could ask what is the extent to which he is gazing at the native culture through a patronising and imerialising white culture? Does this music video eroticise the native woman? </p>
<p>For example, his own virility is heightened and raised by the virile native girl&#8217;s desire for him. Step back into the past and you find abundant images of the eroticisation of the native body  In Ishq Becto&#8217;s video, the bai is given agency and is not an object to be merely looked at. She desires Ishq Bector and is hysterical about the same, though in a more subdued form. On the other hand, she is elevated to a new kind of exploitation by transferring her body into a more desirable and gaze friendly attire. So the ordinary bai, engaged in a class struggle also becomes a sexual commodity. </p>
<p>So, is Ishq Bector the returning imperialising gaze? A different kind of representation of the bai can be found in Indian films. Here we see the female from the gaze of the subject thereby leading to interpellation of our own symbolic relations with the subject (the threatening male) and the object (the threatened female). This construction of the bai is from a sensibility that views women as vulnerable and the male gaze as threatening, here we have crude (but not inauthentic) representations of the male (a villain) whose sexual drives leads him to gaze (illicitly) at the female body. Here the subject (the villain) is able to gaze because the baiis weak and vulnerable and cannot challenge the act. </p>
<p>In the case of Aye Hip Hopper, it raises a further problematic because it also allows us to imagine the bai outside of the class struggle. Here the female articulates her desire and requests the male subject to return her affections in kind! She asks him to mop the floor of her love house! Of course, such a construction is not without problematic resolutions. </p>
<p>check out this article with videos at this site:<br />
<a href="http://subalternstudies.com/?p=313" rel="nofollow">http://subalternstudies.com/?p=313</a></p>
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		<title>By: Anum</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-155</link>
		<dc:creator>Anum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 23:33:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also, if I was his bai..i would definetely have a crush on him..and it would be MAJOR..his lucky girlfriend =]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also, if I was his bai..i would definetely have a crush on him..and it would be MAJOR..his lucky girlfriend =]</p>
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		<title>By: Anum</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-154</link>
		<dc:creator>Anum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 23:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>its anum here...i love ur song...dunno why hes getting tight abt it...and to not a fan- ISHQ BECTORS MUSIC IS NOT GARBAGE
buh bye my love keep on doin your thang- even if people r gonna b losers abt it =] mwah</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>its anum here&#8230;i love ur song&#8230;dunno why hes getting tight abt it&#8230;and to not a fan- ISHQ BECTORS MUSIC IS NOT GARBAGE<br />
buh bye my love keep on doin your thang- even if people r gonna b losers abt it =] mwah</p>
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		<title>By: HH</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-117</link>
		<dc:creator>HH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 23:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We're all creatures alike, Humans who dislike, some ask why, becuz we dun try, Life is a test, Fulfill it at your best, cuz once its too late, then ur really gonna hate!. HH</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We&#8217;re all creatures alike, Humans who dislike, some ask why, becuz we dun try, Life is a test, Fulfill it at your best, cuz once its too late, then ur really gonna hate!. HH</p>
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		<title>By: Noooooooo-reeeehh</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-116</link>
		<dc:creator>Noooooooo-reeeehh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 14:58:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>lolz cant believe pple found it offencesive gawd pple cool it... its just a frinking song... which i love........amazing..tuneee... aye hip hopper.. dukku daddy a bit diapointing but it was good love the theme to it... u got a nice voice.. and love ur tracks... hope to hear from u soon 
p.s u got killer moves and ur sexc/hot
lots of love
Nuree..
Mwahz 
xxxxx</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>lolz cant believe pple found it offencesive gawd pple cool it&#8230; its just a frinking song&#8230; which i love&#8230;&#8230;..amazing..tuneee&#8230; aye hip hopper.. dukku daddy a bit diapointing but it was good love the theme to it&#8230; u got a nice voice.. and love ur tracks&#8230; hope to hear from u soon<br />
p.s u got killer moves and ur sexc/hot<br />
lots of love<br />
Nuree..<br />
Mwahz<br />
xxxxx</p>
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		<title>By: Ms Mascreen</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-115</link>
		<dc:creator>Ms Mascreen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 07:30:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The posts on this blog is interesting.......diverse, I must say!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The posts on this blog is interesting&#8230;&#8230;.diverse, I must say!</p>
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		<title>By: zari</title>
		<link>http://blog.ishqisdead.com/2008/03/31/sincerely-an-indian/#comment-114</link>
		<dc:creator>zari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 13:21:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>how the hell is it degrading? have u even consulted more women before cming to conclusion yourself? i think its a mutual thing between the star and the bai, hehe! but i think ppl worried about women are going the wrong way, thrs a lot more to achieve probably ion the streets than here!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>how the hell is it degrading? have u even consulted more women before cming to conclusion yourself? i think its a mutual thing between the star and the bai, hehe! but i think ppl worried about women are going the wrong way, thrs a lot more to achieve probably ion the streets than here!</p>
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